Riku one day later: “ugh you’re so clingy. You expect me to do everything with you. You act like im at your beck and call exclusively in tjis friendship. Ugh how disgusting.”
Posted over a year ago
I just thought it was amazing how Riku demanded that I be with her on Facebook from the very instant I get off work, but somehow I'm the one who was locking her into a friendship she didn't wantover a year ago
*literally demands that she get to monopolize Wantas time then turns right around and persecutes him as some kind of fucked up stalker who only wants her to be friends with him*over a year ago
Having had two, and what promises to be a third really amazing day in a row, I have to say that sadly, It's not sad that I ditched Riku.
Posted over a year ago
Today was long but my gosh I really enjoyed myself. Love that everyone at work is like "OH THANK GOODNESS YOU'RE HERE! PLEASE GET THIS PLACE LOOKING SOMEWHAT RESPECTABLE!"
As well as I played some more Overwatch with people and I learned how to use Mei a little bit and got some endorsements for Good Team play even tho I sadly couldn't use my mic. Also Bugles taste good.
Posted over a year ago
I think it is perfectly acceptable to just go with the flow and let shit overwhelm you when you literally have zero support system to rely on.
Posted over a year ago
This is when you really miss when you don't have the thing that used to bring you peace of mind when everything was going to shit
Posted over a year ago
*let my family spend $400 of my savings on a day trip yesterday*
*is now being yelled and screamed at because I misunderstood a text and accidentally bought one less meal than we needed for dinner today*
Posted over a year ago
Solitude fucks me up. I'm aight at being alone but if I'm FORCED to be alone or if an issue happens and "nothing" is the only right answer, it has probably the worst effect on my mental state because what I've noticed is that when there's a pressing issue, it PRESSES. I know. Shocking right? I will think about that shit constantly until the tiniest thing can either set me off in a blind rage or make me shrivel up and try to ignore it.
Posted over a year ago
And it leads to the stuff in the post below this about being empty cuz it usually drains me till I'm like "I just don't wanna do, say, or experience anything..."over a year ago
But now that I really wanna watch anime, I dunno what to watch...
There's the anime some rando posted as a poll on here, "Chivalry of a failed knight"
There's more Detective Conan, and there's Youkoso which I watched like 3 episodes of awhile ago..I could finish that. I guess if I am interested in Owari, it'll prolly be on my own time? I dunno how the anime in that folder will work...hmm...or I could rewatch something...
Posted over a year ago
Honestly anyone who says that you shouldn't rank your friends is deluding themselves. Friends are people you can rely on and trust with your problems. It's ridiculously obvious that some friends will have earned your trust more or are people you rely on. And maybe some of your friends fulfill a different criteria but are just...THE MOST unreliable
Posted over a year ago
Personally I think its more of a respect to all the friends. Of course everyone ranks everyone at least to some intrinsic level, but it doesnt mean that specific rankings have to be stated and addressed. Personally, its just all too much for myself to say one person is officially higher than the other. Especially since a formal ranking is kind of pointless in the grand spectrum cause in the end of the day it really just adds a bit of a suggestion on who to believe and who to trust in an argument, that of which can be done without a formal ranking. In the end, most decisions are situationally based, especially when put between two friends.over a year ago
But I digress, thats just a personal opinion of mine. It feels a little rude to other friends and a little too restraining to officially say Person A is higher than Person B.over a year ago
If that is the case, to borrow from your example, I would feel bad for Person A who likely has put far more into the friendship than Person Bover a year ago
Everyone has different views on the matter. No two people will consider friendship the same way which is why everyone's rankings, or lack thereof, are different as wellover a year ago
I don't even believe your thoughts on it are "wrong" or whatever. This isn't that kind of discussion. This is for those people who are always like "Oh equality everyone is the saaaame" but yours is just "doesn't matter if you rank them. Just don't make a show of it cuz other people might get their feelings hurt"over a year ago
Well that plus I personally get too confined in the thought of ranking people. Its too much of a hassle and it gives me the mental idea that I should treat one better than another for the basis that I ranked them higher. My idea of not wanting to list is the same as my idea of not really caring about a gender, sexuality, or romantic label. All of that stuff just comes with too much contemplation, thought, ideas of what is and isnt okay, and ultimately excessive work and stress than it is to just being passive and dismissive to it. Ranking just makes things more complex than they need to be in my personal opinionover a year ago
Its much easier just to be friends with everyone and treat them as you just naturally would, than it is to say Person A is higher than Person B and I trust them more so Ill agree with them / put more faith in them than Person B.over a year ago
I can agree that labels aren't really necessary even tho I personally can't go through life without some labels on certain things. I just get so annoyed when I see posts or I'm talking to someone and they go and deny it with stuff like "No no I treat everyone equally!" and I'm just sitting there like "Ya-huh. Sure ya do"over a year ago
Water came first so naturally Fire must come next. Guess the next major thing to look forward to on this club is my Top 10 Fire Pokemon.
Posted over a year ago
Have a blessed NEW YEAR WD & fans!
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Posted over a year ago