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Once Upon A Time Question

Is anyone here afraid to comment because of me, do you all even want me on this spot?

I'm sorry to bug you guys or bring up something not Once related but a certain comment (Just think of one thing: why is it that one of the recent comments on a pick, not mine, ended with:
"*** Please do not attack me for my opinions. I love Regina, but i love her without ignoring her wrong-doings & "woobifying" her actions.") inspired me to ask a few things.

Do any of you feel like I'm attacking you?

Are any of you afraid to comment because of me?

Do I annoy you?

And do you even want me on this spot? Would it be better if I just left? (This one has been repeating in my head for a while now because I don't want to be a bother to anyone).

Please answer honestly, it's kind of important to me. And I ask because if I'm a bother to you I'll just leave because I don't want anyone to feel afraid to voice their opinions.
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Don't worry,you are NOT bother to me.
magichand posted over a year ago
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And from this question you've asked, i see you want to solve this problem about voicing opinions and stop fighting. And that doesn't make you a bully.
magichand posted over a year ago
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Just as a side note part of the reason I ask this is because I want to know if I'm going overboard in my debates. That's why I need honesty. If I offend or scare you at all, just politely talk to me about it. Odds are I didn't mean to offend or scare you.
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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BeccaL said:
I know you don't know me well... or at all for that matter but I'm not afraid of commenting on here nor do i feel like you attack people. I actually feel like people attack you sometimes with these comments I've been reading these last few days. All you do is voice you're opinion and that's what everyone is entitled to on here or any other fan site. You actually make me want to voice my opinion more, so no i don't think you should leave this site at all and you dont annoy me.
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minervadawn said:
You should know this already but I'm gonna answer anyway.

I enjoy discussing OUAT with you. I've never been a villain follower. There are very few times when I haven't sided with the goody-goods. I sympathize with the villains but in the end I want to see them rotting in jail while the good guys celebrate. Because of this we often find ourselves on opposite sides on this site. However on those occasions I felt like you present very logical reasons for your opinion and even if we don't reach a consensise you never make me feel as though my opinion was any less valid then yours.

You may be a touch overprotective of gina, but that is because your passionate. Unfortunatly youve picked a characture thats gonna reseive alot of hate no matter how you slice it. From what I've learned of you in the past couple weeks, you may not be on the side of good externaly but you're on the side of good internally, the good that every person has inside them. This is where we find common ground. I respect you very much zanhar1.
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posted over a year ago 
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Thank you, I'm glad you don't think I'm being a jerk. I always seem to pick the most hated characters, and get a lot of crap for it. And thank you again for your respect. :)
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
Alchemistlover said:
I don't mind you at all. Regina is awesome but i'm not sure if she's my fave ( but is one hell of a villain!) you generally love villains girls like Lust form fma, bellatrix form harry potter and azula from avatar but that's your style, just like mine usually is tough feisty good girls. I don't think your actually bothering anybody or attacking them and nobody wants you to leave. I know i just started becoming active o this pot but from what i can tell you get into arguments about Gina but that's just because she's your fave character there's nothing wrong with it.
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posted over a year ago 
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I hope others would agree with that.
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
Rumbellefan11 said:
I've never seen you attack anyone. I've seen you debate with people, but that is a completely different thing and debating is not really a bad thing on fandom sites. It's a way of discussing something. Every discussion you have with someone in a fandom can't be agreeing..that's unrealistic and silly.

I want you to stay!!! You're one of my fave people on here. *hugs*
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posted over a year ago 
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Thanks I try not to attack people or come off like I am. I can see how debates and fights would get confused fir one another so I wanted to make sure I haven't crossed the line. Thanks again you're one of my favorites as well, you're always nice to me. *hugs*
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
misse1000 said:
When I saw someone ask this, my thought was, "What is this person thinking? I've never had anyone attack me or make me feel uncomfortable." Then I saw it was you and thought, "Oh, definitely not." You like villains; I like good guys. Everyone discusses the episodes on here. It's why I come. None of my "real" friends watch this show. There is no way that you've ever done anything to make me feel uncomfortable. You defend Regina, but that's okay because I defend my favorite characters too. Everyone does. You don't need to leave. In fact, don't leave. You'll be missed.
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posted over a year ago 
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Someone has been yelling me that she thinks I'm attacking her and others, that's what inspired me to ask this. And thank you for answering I was hoping someone I didn't know all to well would. Only a handful of my real friends watch it lol so I come on here for more in depth conversations. That's good to know I don't aim to make others uncomfortable. Thank you again for answering, and I won't be leaving as most people say they dont want me to
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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That person is an idiot. Ignore her. It's only a TV show; anyone who takes it as seriously as they would take politics or religion is not worth your time.
misse1000 posted over a year ago
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She left the spot for now, so that'll be easier. Meh I kind of take it that seriously meself lol. But people who insult people who they don't even know for silly reasons...
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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