I think that it's the person's choice. If they want to wait for religious/spiritual reasons or because they're not yet ready for sex, that's okay. If they don't want to wait till' marriage, that's okay too. Even though I do think that it's better to lose your virginity to someone you love rather than just anybody, even though I lost mine to someone I didn't love, in fact I didn't even know her. I think it's up to the person but I don't really see premarital sex as a big deal.
I think it's a commitment that will make your love stronger if you wait, and it sure does help eliminate a lot of drama during the teenage years!
Of course, it would have worked for me if I had known that I was even able to marry who I love...but it's not going to happen any time soon with this government. -_-
So I think it is a good idea, but it shouldn't be a requirement to do things that way.
posted over a year ago
cheer up Roxas, im sure you'll find the right guy someday :)
uhm, honestly idk, but remaining a virgin can help to reduce unwanted pregnancies std's and the growing population ;) i think....well...i don't really have a life, so when i get one ill come back and decide :P
I think it's more of a personal thing than a black-or-white or blatantly-wrong-or-right-decision kind of deal, and I'm tolerant of and respect anybody who goes down that route. :)
I'm waiting for marriage. Honestly, it disgusts me to think of the man I will marry having sex with other women. So I'm returning the favor. I have nothing against those who choose not to wait, though. It's their choice, and I can respect that. As long as they aren't having sex with people they hardly know at a young age, I see nothing wrong with it. I just think that it'd be more meaningful if you were married and going to spend forever with that person afterwards instead of having to take the Walk of Shame.
I believe it is your choice but I won't. I am a Christian and we don't do that or atleast we shouldn't. So I'll wait till marriage when I believe I found the right person.
posted over a year ago
Same here. You shouldn't give your virginity away to just anybody.
There's no reason why either can't exist. Remaining a virgin till marriage is something a lot of people do, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's a difficult thing to do, but that's a small issue. As for finding true love, I can believe it, however unlikely it is.
Its not fair because most humans are not virgins ive been married 2 times no virginity was safly waiting on me i took two of my sisters virginity if not for that id be at a lose
