Generally something that you would want to ask your mate... But... I would say running her hot bath, sprinkling rose petals and scented salts in the water, having a nice glass of wine on the edge of the bath, dimming the lights, walking herin and handing her a book (she loves to read).. And then leaving her alone until she was good and damn ready to emerge into the real world again.
first when she is down or feeling a bit sad i walk up behind her and a lay right underneath her and i pull her into a lying position. i then gently start kissing her until i see a smile and then we cuddle, sometimes for ages. other times i massage her and i also have protected crystal from the outside scum of the earth and almost lost my life for her.
