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Love issues!! (Again)

Ok, so I'm in love. But for some reason, my heart is killing me in deep pain. It's really hard to be happy. I don't know if this is love anymore. Can somebody give me some advice so I can go back to normal?
Love issues!! (Again)
 axlluver43 posted over a year ago
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jameswilson said:
Well, the first question you should ask yourself is whether or not that pain has to do with the person you're in love with or yourself.
Are you afraid of such a deep commitment or is the person you're with fading out of that realm of love? Does that thought scare you?
Never make a hasty decision with the person you care about, talk to a friend or someone you can trust who will just let you open your mind - say everything that comes into your head and don't hold anything back. If you don't know anyone like this just sit yourself down and have your own conversation. Talk about what might be stressing you out.
You might find that you're just scared of being so dependent on this person if its new (or even if its old) or maybe you're realizing that you aren't in love after all and are afraid of what that might mean.
Either way, opening up and being honest with yourself is the way to go.
If you listen to what's going on in your head you might be surprised at what you find.
Good luck!
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GirRocks said:
Love is filled with deep pain... I know, I've been inlove for half of my life with the same guy. I found it hard to be happy when he was happy, especially sense he was my best friend and didnt love me. Hes moved now but I love him anyway. I dont think you should say you arent in love anymore. Give it a few more days and see how it goes.
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JazzLover101 said:
Just think about how happy you would be without this depressing cloud trust me I have it too but I think mine is permenant
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teamsalvatore98 said:
are you sure you are not having heart failure?
it could just be that..
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are you sure you are not having heart failure?
it could just be that..
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jeftelover said:
spend time with your friends.have a little fun
girl!go crazy!laugh a lot!
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